Smiles: Ok, I admit that I have spent WAY too much time reading this blog today (while at work), laughing out loud, tearing up, smiling, and overall enjoying myself. This posting from last October needs to be posted, as not only is it exactly how I feel about some of my friends, but I was just thinking about this exact thing the other day...The blessing of friends who: 1) really care how you are, 2) really care to hear the DETAILS to the story, 3) know you well enough to know why the details are all important, and which details are REALLY important, 4) you want to hear their life too...details and all, 5) you hang up the phone/drive home thinking "I feel so much better after having talked to him/her" even if you were only discussing a minor detail of your day at work. As a single woman, I think I am particularly appreciative of those in my life who listen (and care) about the details of my life. Thank you!
Post from Faking It Blog
I spoke with one of my close girlfriends over the weekend and it was a very normal conversation for us:
How are you?
How are you?
But it occurred to me, as we were talking, how very lucky I am. Because, you know, she really meant How are you? As in: I want to hear everything and if life is less than fantastic, I want to hear that too, and not so I can fix it but just so I can know, because you're my friend and I love you. I got all of that with her How are you? And I meant all of it back to her as well. I've been blessed in my life: I have girlfriends like this. When they ask How are you? I can answer, "Oh, pretty shitty." Or, "I hate my husband." Or, "My kids are driving me up the wall." And they know my life is pretty good and that my husband is a great guy and that my kids are my life. They get it. I can say that Nolan keeps biting me and I wish I weren't breastfeeding and they know I mean I'll nurse this child until he is 2...and I'll do it marching down Main Street. They've got my back. I cannot possibly tell each of you what you mean to me. So I'll just say hi here. You know who you are. You who make me laugh and let me cry. You who are passionate and intelligent and insightful. You who make me think about things in new ways. You who support me and guide me. You who nod in understanding and you on whom I lean. I love you all.

Oh Yeah, I Forgot I Am Good at That: Earlier this week I was asked to present to a group of students who volunteer with the Alumni Assocation on "The Art of Small Talk". I recieved very positive feedback. Two weeks ago I taught two classes at MIT's Charm School, "Impressive Interviewing Skills" and "Dealing with Difficult People/Situations". Today, a colleague who I don't know too well came by my office to see if I could talk to her about some troubles her teenage son is having. Both instances were nice reminders of additional things I am good at and enjoy. It always nice to "access" those part of my being. ;-)

Fabulous!: A whole web site just about airplane meals! Its amazing that some airlines are eliminating (some are going to start charging for soda) while others (especially the international airlines) serve unbelievable, multi-course meals! I could spend quite a bit of time clicking around on this site. (I don't know if that says more about me or the site...)

Happy Valentines Day!

Smintresting (and Encouraging): Wal-Mart said today it plans to start stocking and selling the emergency contraception drug Plan B at its 44 Massachusetts pharmacies after receiving a directive from state regulators. The retailer said it is also giving serious thought to carrying the drug at all of its 3,700 pharmacies nationwide. Um, ya think so?

Everything Happens For a Reason: As a result of Jen having to work all weekend, and therefore my leaving Austin on Friday rather than today, I am at home, and not stranded in Austin or Chicago or who knows where. Apparently more than 2000 flights have already been cancelled for today! (And I just walked through the blizzard to get the paper and I confirm that planes will not be flying to Boston.) So, here I am, safe and sound, with the yummy veggie chili I made yesterday and TiVo-- what more can a girl ask for?

So, I may be home for the next 36 hours, as a huge blizzard is on its way, so I suppose I have nothing better to do than...Four Things Meme:
Four Jobs I've Had: waitress at Ruby Tuesdays (and Captain Tony's), counselor at Camp Kamaji(where I spent my summers as a kid in northern MN), Reproductive Health Counselor at Shaw High School Health Center, Associate Director for Alumni Education at the MIT Alumni Association
Four Movies I Can Watch Over and Over: Shawshank Redemption, Sixteen Candles, When Harry Met Sally (was on this weekend), Grease
Four Places I've Lived: Our nations capital, Kansas (just ask Judi), Uptown uptown Shaker Shaker Heights, Winter Hill
Four Current TV Shows I Love: CSI (regular and Miami), Law & Order (regular and SVU much more than Criminal Intent), Cold Case, Crossing Jordan (notice a trend?!?)
Four popular TV shows that I've never watched a single minute of: How I Met Your Mother (written by a SHHS grad), Entourage, Grey's Anatomy (which I would probably like but it is on at the same time of some other show I love...don't remember which), Gilmore Girls
Four Places I've Vacationed: Israel, Toronto, Palm Desert, Cancun (I am very blessed and have vacationed many places)
Four Places I'd Rather Be Right Now: Away from the incoming snow, Phoenix, in someone's arms, Australia
Four of my favorite dishes: really good pizza, Sam Camera's pad thai, Christina's coffee oreo ice cream, the chicken stuffed with mushrooms in some sorta spinich cream sauce at Tu Y Yo
Four dishes I will never eat again: meatloaf, cauliflower and olives (not really, but I would if I coudl help it), never say never
Four sites I visit daily: cnn.com, Chowhounds Boston, The Angus Index/ True Epicure Says, the registration update of my April event
Four bloggers I am tagging: you, you, you and you

Roommates in the Media: (all over!) A feature on John Legend, my brother's freshman year roommate at Penn on CNN.com (discussing that she sang at the Super Bowl, is performing at the Grammy's, has the most nominations, and generally has, shall we say, hit it big.) And to think, Kevin was with him when he was a little 18 year old.

Kudos: To Dove for its Campaign for Real Beauty. They premiered a new ad last night which was just wonderful...as my brother said "The anti-Budweiser ad during the Super Bowl." Score: 1 for good body image, 579 for skinny women who like like only the other women in the ads

Guess They Need the Business: Some background-- several years ago I got sucked into this email/web thing where I get emails from MyPoints, and I earn points for every email I open and click through. The points earn me money at stores, and over the years I have earned about $100 at Target. ANYHOW, today's add is for Blackberry! The same company that might be forced out of business (of forced to change its business) by the Supreme Court. I guess now WOULD be a good time to drum up some business with discounts etc.

Good Omen: I am presenting at today's all staff meeting of the Alumni Association about graduate alumni. I just opened a fortune cookie that said "Many people will be drawn to you for your wisdom and insights.". Excellent!

Moment of Silence: Coretta Scott King, the widow of slain civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr., died Monday night. Here's a question, what is the likelihood that Bush will make note of this in his State of the Union address tongiht, and what is the likelihood he will sound sincere?

Fascinating Fact: As always, last night's Ladies Night was fun, loving and INFORMATIVE. Little know fact-- the cheese in SmartFood is the same stuff in Annie Mac n Cheese! Now that's Good Eats!

Because I Don't Travel Enough: I have decided to go on a long weekend to LA in early March. I have frequent flier miles, and since I am cancelling my Utah trip planned for May (I still hope to go on the trip in August) I decide to go on a trip out West. I actually haven't been there for a non-work trip in awhile (although it doesn't feel that way because I usually stay on for a weekend of fun at the end of a work trip) I will go between my work trips to Austin (where I will see high school friend Jen and her wife Jackie/Jacquie) in February and Philly in mid-March.

Is It A Bird? Is It A Plane? Is It A Harp Lady?: Emily, Eve, Brenda and I went to see Deborah Hansen-Conant, who plays the electric harp, tells rambling (usually amusing) stories, has her hair in extentions and wild ribbons, and seems to amuse herself AT LEAST as much as she amuses her audience at the tiny Jimmy Tingle's Off-Broadway Theater. Eve was able to get us free tickets through her job, and I won a CD by being a smart ass during the raffle. (Deborah had us practice screaming and cheering if we won the free raffle. After we practiced, she "read" a raffle entry (a bogus one-- we entered with only our names and she read off a long number-- as if she was reading a traditional raffle ticket. I cheered as if I had won-- to be silly-- and she gave me a CD. Even funnier was that Brenda won teh grand prize (legit!) which was a copy of each of Deborah's cd's (5 I think).

The Return of Friday Five (well, a bit more than 5): Thanks to Em for reviving this tradition.
- What were you doing ten years ago? I was entering my final semester at Macalester College, but not really attending classes, as I was student teaching in a fifth grade and then sixth grade classroom. I was living IN the football stadium (a small, almost off-campus, dorm) I was unsure of my post-graduation plan, but knew I wanted to find a job doing reproductive health education.
- What were you doing five years ago? I had just moved to Boston (well, Cambridge to be exact) after finishing my Masters in Nonprofit Management. I was dating someone who lived in Worcester, MA. I was working at Teen Empowerment doing fund raising and organizational advancement.
- What were you doing one year ago? I was going to chiropractic three days a week, in hopes of finally ailing my back. (somewhat successful) I had just gotten back from a fantastic visit in Arizona with my college pal Eva. I was entering my second year living in my condo in Somerville.
- Five snacks I enjoy: ice cream, chips & guac, popcorn, Triskets & cheese, Sun Chips
- Five songs to which I know all the lyrics: “Greatest Love of All”, “I Will Survive”, the Oreo cookie theme song (Ice cream and an Oreo cookie, go together, made forever, the classic combination…), …hmmm….struggling here… “Happy Birthday” and “Mary Had a Little Lamb”
- Five things I would do if I were a millionaire: start a philanthropic foundation, go on at least one major international trip a year, go one a couple of trips with friends (my treat), buy new furniture for my house, eat out at all 50 restaurants on my list of places I want to go
- Five bad habits: interrupting people when they talk, getting impatient with other drivers, not changing my linens as often as I should, being short with my mom, thinking the WORST when someone is late/forgets to call/etc
- Five things I like doing: traveling, eating at restaurants, having quality time with friends, sleeping, dancing
- Five things I would never wear again: my high school prom dress, ….this one is stumping me….
- Five favorite toys: I better not go there.

Another Reason...: To go on vacation more often. For the second time, the morning after returning from a vacation (Cancun with my parents and brother), my co-worker who is responsible for the MIT Alumni Travel Program, walked into my office to ask me to be the staff host on a travel program. This one is in May and goes to Croatia, Slovenia and Italy. The only minor downside is that I was planning a trip to the national parks in Utah at that time, but that trip can be postponed and I am thrilled to go on this trip. What a wonderful opportunity! Woo woo!

Meh-he-co! I leave for Mexico early on Saturday morning, to meet up with my parents and brother! It is a fast trip (returning on Wednesday), but oh am I excited! Sun. Fun. Water. Relaxation. Bring it on!

The Wierdest Ailment: I just had to share...although I don't even know if I can describe. Last night at Curves, I was simply running in place on the little square, and I turned my head to talk to Emily, who was right next to me, doing her little exercises. WELL! Apparently I pulled? strained? pinched? some nerve in my front neck, which went into a crazy, painful thing! Kinda like when you turn your head the wrong way and a muscle on the side of your neck cinches up, and sometime hurts for a few hours....but it was the muscles that go down the FRONT of my neck, and it felt like someone had punched me under my chin on my the muscle that helps you swallow! I was doing NOTHING when it happened! It hurt every time I tipped my hear higher than straight ahead, and with other similar movements. I exercised for about ten more minutes and then stopped (it was basically time to stop anyhow) I couldn't do my stretches, and, although it slowly started to feel increasingly better, it still hurts a little bit now-- almost 24 hours later! Insane!

Regisration is OPEN: The registration for my big April event went live today, in conjunction with the first marketing email that is going out this afternoon. This is the first time that MIT has ever invited all alumni with a graduate degree back to campus...and it's my baby. I am in charge of the concept, exectution, web site, marketing, speakers, venues, EVERYTHING. Check out the web site and learn more! (I know you are just dying to!)